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Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Raji’oun (إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ)
Indeed, we belong to Allah, and indeed, to Him we will return. The Quran reminds us of our return to the Divine, and so too does the...
farhinapuri
Feb 53 min read
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Time...
Happy Birthday Lalla... Time doesn't heal anything, it just teaches us how to live with pain. The passage of time may take the edge of...
farhinapuri
Nov 4, 20242 min read
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Four Years…
Today marks four years since Lilly passed over, and as I do each year, I am trying to articulate my feelings. People often ask how I feel...
farhinapuri
Jul 11, 20242 min read
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Untraveled Paths: The Journey We Dreamed...
2019 Me: "Lilly..." Lilly: "Hmm....." Me: "Let's take a trip" Lilly: "Where" Me: "I want to take you to India" Lilly: "Hell NO!!! ...
farhinapuri
Jun 7, 20244 min read
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Lessons Learnt…
These are some of the things I’ve learnt along the way…. Time doesn’t heal - you learn to live with your pain, and your grief becomes...
farhinapuri
Apr 29, 20241 min read
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Life: A Grand Play
I see life as a grand play, a captivating drama unfolding on the stage of existence. Each of us are actors in that play. Without...
farhinapuri
Dec 19, 20232 min read
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Care Packages...
Have you checked in on a friend today? Yourself? We're all on this journey together. In the last three years, most of us have been...
farhinapuri
Aug 8, 20232 min read
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Now that you've gone.....
Lilly in The Sacred Rudraksha Forest located on the Hawaiian island of Kauai. This grove or forest is the only one comprised of...
farhinapuri
Jul 11, 20233 min read
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New Beginnings….
Simmi: “So mum…. Are you going to throw me a grad party” Me: “I didn’t think of it” Simmi: “Well it’s my last year with all my friends....
farhinapuri
Mar 12, 20232 min read
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Negative Self Talk….
Lilly: MUM! I’m so ugly, no one is going to like me, I’m going to end up a lonely old lady with cats Me: Lilly you’re gorgeous, you...
farhinapuri
Nov 17, 20224 min read
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The Missing Piece…..
Imagine a beautiful puzzle. However, you can’t complete it because of some missing pieces. Pieces that are crucial to the beauty of the...
farhinapuri
Sep 25, 20222 min read
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Predator in Disguise…..
Predator (noun) - a person or group that ruthlessly exploits others Children are generally trusting and believe the things that people...
farhinapuri
May 5, 20224 min read
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That Family…..
Text from a Family: “The Puri‘s, they are ‘That Family’ whose daughter died from drugs. You are not to hang out with ‘That Family’” YES...
farhinapuri
Apr 6, 20222 min read
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Psychosomatic Disorder…
Aug 11th, 2021 Me: “What do you mean there’s nothing medically wrong with my daughter? Doc - she hasn’t been able to walk for 10 hours....
farhinapuri
Jan 9, 20223 min read
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Trauma Triggers By Simmi Puri….
Picture taken and edited by Simmi Puri Simmi’s summer reading included a book about death where the main character finds her dead sister....
farhinapuri
Oct 18, 20213 min read
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Anger…
Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross first explored the five stages of grieving or mourning theory in her 1969 book, On Death and Dying. The five...
farhinapuri
Oct 10, 20213 min read
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Letting Go…
After Lilly’s passing, I have clung to the items that she had on or near her for the last 24 hours of her life. The bag of fruit loops...
farhinapuri
Sep 21, 20212 min read
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A year later...
My heart still skips a beat when I hear the front door chime after 11pm... I still look for you when I enter your room... I look for you...
farhinapuri
Jul 20, 20211 min read
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Love you for 1000 years....
August 2019 - After the 2nd overdose Lilly: "Mum, you're upset" Me: "No Lilly ,i'm not upset" Lilly: "Mum, you're angry" Me: "No...
farhinapuri
Jun 12, 20213 min read
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Animal Therapy...
Lilly: “Mum I want a puppy” Me: “I’ve given you siblings, so no puppy” Lilly: “Mum Please... Ok if not a dog, let me get a teacup pig 🐷...
farhinapuri
May 16, 20213 min read
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