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Happy Birthday My Lilly Lum. Oh Lalla... Life has not been the same without you. You were always the hardest daughter to shop for. It...
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farhinapuri
Nov 1, 20205 min
Oracle Abuse....
Lilly - What I wouldn’t do to talk to you one more time, hear your voice one more time, hug you to my heart's content, or just chill with...
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farhinapuri
Oct 28, 20204 min
To Test or Not to Test....
Today, our kids are educated on birth control, safe sex practices, STDs, and HIV. Safe sex is a widely talked about topic and no one bats...
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farhinapuri
Oct 23, 20205 min
Thank You Mum....
It has taken a lot of courage to share my last birthday wish from Lilly with everyone. My Birthday is just never going to be perfectly...
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farhinapuri
Oct 20, 20206 min
The Puri Sisters......
A household full of girls! You can imagine the love, chaos, fights, laughter, tears, anger, and frustration. If you’re lucky enough to...
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farhinapuri
Oct 18, 20204 min
A Father’s Perspective....
Born on the most important day of Diwali, right after Lakshmi Puja. This baby was his Lakshmi (goddess of wealth). He even won the...
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farhinapuri
Oct 16, 20204 min
Since all from earth must return....
Sales Assistant: “How can I help you? Are you shopping for something special”? Me: “My daughter passed away from a drug overdose and I...
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farhinapuri
Oct 14, 20204 min
Choices, Choices......
What makes a ‘good’ parent? The bottom line, the choices that we make for our children out of love makes a ‘good’ parent. Our heart...
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farhinapuri
Oct 10, 20204 min
Sorry Not Sorry.....
I’m not ashamed or uncomfortable to say that Lilly suffered from Bi-Polar Disorder and Addiction! I’m not ashamed or uncomfortable to...
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farhinapuri
Oct 7, 20203 min
The Infamous Staircase....
One of the reasons we bought our house was for the staircase. I had envisioned the girls coming down the stairs in their graduation...
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farhinapuri
Oct 4, 20204 min
Back to reality......
Perfect Saturday morning. Beautiful weather, not a cloud in the sky. And we have a dead daughter in our house. How INSANE is that? Or...
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farhinapuri
Oct 1, 20204 min
Friday July 10th, 2020 - The Calm Before The Deadly Storm.....
Last weeks of summer holidays - the kids would stay up late and sleep in. I had started my day at 5am since we were going through an...
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farhinapuri
Sep 27, 20202 min
No God - Please this is not happening......
As parents, we know and recognize the various tones and pitches of our children's voices. We know when they are in distress, when they...
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farhinapuri
Sep 24, 20202 min
I Blame Myself..........
I can’t stop thinking about how much you suffered and my inability to Save you. A large part of my grieving is self blame. The grief...
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